It is now May 3 and Bob has been away for 6 weeks. The first week was difficult for me even though Bob was in the marina in Mazatlan. I kept thinking of his trip and worrying that he would be hurt or fall overboard..yes I have a vivid imagination. Patches, our dog, was also missing Bob, and still is. He has become very attached to our male neighbours. Just as an aside, yesterday when I was leaving him, he went and sat at their door!!
As time has passed I have become more accustomed to being on my own. I have never minded living alone as I do enjoy that freedom, but just as Bob missed me to talk about the days's aventures or mundane issues, I missed him for the same reason.
Whereas Bob was very solitary on the boat, I have a great network of friends here who support me if and when I need support. My social calendar has been full!!
When Bob was at anchor or doing a day sail, I really wasn't concerned but every time he had an overnighter, I did not sleep. In fact when he returned from the Baja I was awake every hour and finally got up at 6 am!! And yes when I did not hear from Bob for 24 hr, I did have a meltdown. Thank goodness I have a great neighbour who lent me a shoulder to cry on, literally and metaphorically.
I look forward to seeing Bob tomorrow and hearing all about his adventures. He should have some great photos for me to post. Look for photos.
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